Salaam, thank you for your kind words i am sorry if you are having some difficulties in wearing it. We have tested this abaya on several different ladies as we wanted to perfect the neck gap, head fitting issue! We believe that this is the best universal design however if you are still having difficulties please message me on instagram ( @hawaa_clothing) and I am happy to give you some tips on how best to wear it so that problem doesn't occur. please do reach out so I can help you on this journey inshaAllah